It was horrifying enough when it was kids doing the bullying, but it wasn't as shocking. Like Henny Penny, they think the way you addressed that lady in there was very. But I am about to, and I think at certain points we were meant to sympathize for Sara - even. When Mean Girls Bullied My Daughter Because of Her Learning Issues. What subliminal messages signal a middle aged woman who has been hurt by a certain church deeply.